Changes are the Key.

These apply to both men and women when it comes to infidelity, it is an equal opportunity offender.

The Blame Game

Psychological projection is a really strange human behavior in which a person ascribes flaws to others that they deny possessing. As a result of this twisted reverse psychology, projection also happens to be a great indicator of cheating in a relationship.

For example, if your significant other is all of the sudden accusing you of sneaking around or being untrustworthy, it is probably because they are being deceitful themselves and are paranoid that you will do the same.

Laying It On Thick – Both Positive or Negative

One way cheaters love to hide their lies is to shower those they are lying to with sweet, buttery love and affection. But underneath that unusually gooey-love exterior is oftentimes a hard, cheating core. So if you have been noticing an extra influx of exceedingly sweet affection and thoughtful gifts, you might want to be a little cautious.
Then also turn it up on the other side by aggressively finding fault with you. Picking fights routinely over things that are insignificant or never matter before.
That way if caught the tables can be turned and now “It’s your fault I cheated” we always fight.

E-Romance – Mobile Phones or Social Media

Oh, the joys of modern-day technology. By gracing humankind with a whole new avenue through which people can cheat on each other (just check out AshleyMadison.com and sugarsugar.com), These are dedicated sites for married men & women to find a hook up. The opportunities for him or her to be fooling around with someone else via technology are endless.

If that little voice inside your head, or the sense in the bottom of your gut is telling you that they are acting suspicious around mobile devices and goes to unusual lengths to hide it from you, then you have reason to investigate further.  Investigate quietly to determine if you are wrong. What’s the worst thing that could happen? You could be wrong.

What’s Wrong? Cat Got Your Tongue?

People have trouble keeping their lies straight when they are busy weaving tangled webs of deceit. If you notice that your significant other is starting to backtrack on where he has been or who he told you he was spending time with, then you need to brace yourself for the fact that he is most likely lying to you.

And if you do happen to come across actual proof that he has been lying to you about his whereabouts…

The lies will only become bigger if you stick around.

If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck.. its always going to be a duck.

The Gut Check

It is so strange to me how many people these days refuse to listen to their natural intuition. What could be more reliable than our own deep-rooted, innate sensibilities? This is why I always say that if you just can’t shake the feeling that something is awry, then it probably is. Our intuitions don’t lie. People do. Period.